I tried so many approaches to heal my sexual trauma and problems with intimacy and pleasure: EMDR, years of psychoanalysis, energy healing..

I’m going to share something personal: sex is hard for me.  While I love pleasure, orgasm, intimacy with my loving partner of eight years,

Perhaps a better word for intimacy is “closeness” including intellectual, spiritual, emotional, physical, and, yes, sexual closeness.

From my decades of unraveling my trauma and working with others, I've come to a few realizations: Trauma, including sexual, is inherited...