1-1 somatic sex coaching
Sexual Animism is for those who know that sexual well-being is their birthright.
It’s a program designed to bring freedom in your sexuality, integrate physical and psychological pain, restore your aliveness and empower you to feel turn-on and desire with or without a partner.
I get it.
Sex can be hard. It can feel isolating and embarrassing to be the one with the "issue."
Maybe you've tried talk therapy, read books, or done something more profound, like psychedelics, and still haven't gotten the desired results.
You're starting to wonder what's wrong with me…
Let me tell you, you're not flawed. You just haven't gone deep enough into the nervous system yet.
This is where I find most mainstream sex therapy programs to be lacking. They don't go deep enough and aren't specific and sex-positive enough.
Because sex happens in our body (not our heads), we must go deep into the nervous system to unwind the old conditioning, the traumas, and the cultural/social/religious conditioning we've accumulated.
We have to do it with guidance from someone who gets it and in a sex-positive environment.
It's not you that's got the issue; it's what's been happening to you and around you!
If I could grow from a sexually shut down, terrified girl to fully embodied in my empowered woman self, you can heal too.
If I could go from having clitoral orgasms resulting from fantasies that gave me so much shame to multi-orgasmic just from being alive in nature
You. Can. Too.
Sexual Animism is a 1-1 healing journey.
Together, we uncover you desires and integrate what's in the way.
Some of my clients have worked with pelvic pain, lack of desire, lack of sensation, shameful fantasies, confusing “issues” popping up unexpectedly, trouble with erections, addiction to toys, and so much more. Our sessions are a judgment-free and safe space to work what’s happening to you.
What I find notable is in addition to helping them get results in their desired area, they become much more powerful, confident, assertive, and liberated.
This is because when we heal sexuality, we heal holistically - all aspects of ourselves get addressed; physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual.
After our work together, you can expect to:
Feel safe to feel pleasure in your body with or without a partner
Orgasm without using a toy or shameful fantasy
Communicate what you want with your partner(s)
Feel whole even if there are still lingering issues
Know you are not broken
Know how to create pleasure, joy, and safety for yourself
Feel alive again
Feel empowered by your sexuality and pleasure
No longer be bogged down by social/cultural/religious/familial conditioning
Feel confident being seen as the radiant sexual being you are
Take up space in the world
Sexual Animism 1-1 Coaching includes:
Nine 75-minute Zoom sessions spaced over three months
notes, custom practices, and audio recordings, support, and accountability
completely Customized + Trauma Informed to your, your issue and your nervous system